The element in the third chakra is fire, use it wisely! If the flame is too high, we can be in our super ego, fixating on the false ego. Life is not perfect as we are not, learning from our mistakes wakes up to the authentic self perhaps time and time again until we realize. Oh! that is who I really am….
The key is to keep the ego in check with a consistent light of authenticity…
If we can allow ourselves to listen to our inner voice, trust our hearts and instinct more, everyday life seems less stressful. It is so important these days to meditate stay within and focus on what truly matters to you. Not what someone wants you to be, or you think you should be, or what you ought to be! We can’t get away from judgement, but over judging can be a real trap that can stifle growth. Be gentle with yourself, commit to finding the authentic real person that lives inside you. I promise you will be happier.
I suggest that you imagine igniting your inner fire for personal power and confidence while grounding it into your other chakras to balance power.